I never thought I would have trouble naming a girl. My favorite girl name list is so long! And after two boys back-to-back, I was eager to dust off my list and find the perfect name for our new little girl. But the long list proved to be part of the problem. I had so many names I liked that it made it hard to narrow down the list. Add to that list the pressure of wanting to find the perfect name and not knowing if this will be our last baby (or last girl), and I had such a hard time deciding on a name. I wasn't the only one; Robbie did too. But let me back up a bit...
I keep a list of favorite baby names on my phone at all times. Whenever I hear a name I like, I jot it down for future reference. Much to Robbie's chagrin, every pregnancy, my taste in names seems to change. Ones I previously loved, I suddenly don't like. I'm sure this makes choosing a name with me frustrating, but I can't help it. I honestly think it's God's way of steering me to the right name for each individual kid.
Anyway, my taste is names during this pregnancy, were C/K and S-sounding names mainly for some reason. The one name I liked that didn't fit that bill was Alexa, but I wasn't sold on it; it never quite felt like the right name despite how much I liked it.
After the way everything worked out with Brodrick's name and how his name wasn't even on our radar until the end of my pregnancy, I honestly didn't stress the name decision this go around. In fact, I rather enjoyed looking around and asking others any new names they heard to try and come up with our name. I even searched through baby name books at the library to see if anything jumped out at me. The only name I considered from my search was Bria. I like Brie as a nickname, but wasn't a fan of Brianna and didn't want to use Brielle because it sounded too close to Lacey Belle. When I brought Bria up to Robbie, he wasn't crazy about it, so I wrote it off (unaware it would sort of come back around).
One thing we did decide early on, after finding out the baby was a girl, was the idea of her middle name. Keeping with our tradition of using the middle name as a name variation tribute to loved ones, we knew we wanted to name her after both of our moms. I played around with so many options and ways to combine both of their names (first or middle). Ultimately, I came up with two I liked the best and decided the first name would probably determine what middle name we chose (based on how it all flowed together). But the top two options were: Annise and Sunise/Sunisa. I thought Annise was a name I just made up, but upon researching it more, I found it is actually a name already. I was always a fan of the name Anneliese, and Annise to me had the same ring to it. I thought it was pretty and unique. Sunisa, I had actually heard of her prior because of the Olympic gymnast, Suni Lee (Sunisa is her full name). I thought this was a good option to combine my mom's middle name with Robbie's mom's first name, if Annise didn't fit. We were both leaning toward Annise, but waited to confirm it until after she was born. We did tell family that her middle name would be for our moms but kept the actual name itself a surprise until after she was born.
I vividly remember driving to my last doctor's appointment before Baby came at 36 weeks. On the way to the appointment, I was behind a Toyota Camry car. I remember thinking how pretty Camry sounded, but I didn't want to name my kid after a car, nor did I like how it was spelled. After getting home, I toyed around with the spelling - coming up with Kamry, then Kamrie, which then led me to think of Kambrie, and then that sparked my memory of a girl I used to know whose name was Kambria. It also reminded me of my earlier find of Bria and that I could use Brie as a nickname. In fact, another thing I liked about the name Kambria was all the potential nickname options (Kam/Kammie/Brie/Bria). One of my favorite things about Brodrick's name is how many nickname options he has that can tag off of it. So this was also a plus to me with the name Kambria.
The week Baby was born, I asked Robbie what he thought of the name, and he instantly took to it. It reminded him of a military abbreviation for something he used to come in contact with when he was in the Marines (CAMBRIE). I added the name to our list of options, but didn't really give it a second thought.
We went into the hospital with six name options (the most we ever have), and we had such a hard time narrowing it down, even after meeting Baby Girl. All our options going into birth were: Calista, Celeste, Kassidy, Cassia, Kambria, and Spencer even made a comeback in the hospital. I had liked the name Spencer for a girl but Robbie wasn't crazy about it so I had kind of written it off as a no earlier on and didn't think much of it during most of my pregnancy. While in the hospital, we watched a Psych marathon the whole time, and so I asked Robbie again about using Spencer (the main character's name on the show is Shawn Spencer), and we did consider it, but ultimately it didn't feel right. We also weeded out Cassia. That left us with four options.
My top choice my whole pregnancy was Calista, because I really wanted to use Cali as a nickname. Robbie's favorite name was Celeste. We ultimately took Kassidy off the table because it means "clever one," and we both felt it might jinx us with a sneaky little one LOL.
Going into the hospital, I honestly thought the baby was either going to be Calista or Celeste because they were our two favorites. However, Robbie told me as much as he loved Celeste, that he felt like he would be selfishly choosing it, and it didn't seem like it truly fit Baby. I was shocked. Ultimately, we narrowed it down to Calista or Kambria. It was such a hard decision to make between the two! We kept going back and forth on it.
Not being able to decide, we called the kids at home with my mom and asked which name they liked better. To my surprise, they both said Calista. We asked my mom, and she said Kambria. We called Robbie's mom and asked her, and she also said Kambria. Asking the kids actually made us lean more towards Kambria for some reason.
Robbie looked up both names. I had wanted to use Cali as a nickname because our other kids all had unintentional California-themed names. Lacey Belle's initials are LA, and I used to call her my LA baby. Weston, like the West Coast. And even Brodrick, we say sounds like a surfer dude, which gives us all the California vibes. I knew this was a dumb reason to choose a name, but I always liked Cali as a nickname. Robbie found that Calista also had a connection to a town in Australia, which I have an obsession with. Not to mention, our pup Stralia (named after Australia) passed away earlier this year while I was pregnant with Baby Girl. This gave us another reason to want to lean that way, and yet, we were leaning the other way.
As much as I still loved and wanted to use Calista, I told Robbie I felt the same way about it that he did about Celeste - that I would just be picking it selfishly because I wanted to use it, but that for some reason it just didn't 100% feel like the right name. We had both almost called the Baby Kambria, separately when randomly talking to her, and for some reason, it just seemed to stick. We felt guilty for asking the kids and then not taking their advice. We called them again and determined they wouldn't be crushed if we didn't go with their choice.
Robbie looked up the name Kambria, and we uncovered a California connection...there is a coastal town in California called Cambria. Once we saw that, we decided to just go with it. It was still hard signing the hospital record papers; we went back and forth, unsure if we were 100% picking the right name. I asked Robbie what if we changed our minds, and he said if it was that important and it just didn't fit her, or we regretted it, we could always go through the legal process to change it down the line. So we signed the papers, and it was official, our baby girl was Kambria Annise.
Not going to lie, I did purposefully wait almost a week after she was born until we did the official social media announcement because I was partially afraid we might change our minds on her name after going home😅 But we didn't, and Kambria just fit her perfectly.






















